It was really difficult for me to realize that... like, you guys want to be so open-minded but keep telling me that I'm *really* a lesbian and I *have* to tell my family ALL about it IMMEDIATELY and if I don't, I'm wrong in your eyes? But you still think you're being friendly and supportive?

I think the important lesson is; everyone's a hypocrite.

But yes, come to Colorado. The judges in Boulder are even grandfathering the new laws in. If you were arrested before the election/vote with 1 ou of weed, you're free to go!